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Working and Homeless: Lies About Laziness
About ten years ago, my wife and I were visiting a church in Manhattan. After the service, we wandered through Union Square Park on a perfect spring day. Vendors, artists, and musicians filled the sidewalks, and the trees were exploding with new life and vivid colors.
That's when I noticed a man sitting on the ground with a cardboard sign that read:
"Need money for work, anything helps."

Hunger Doesn’t Have to Win
All month, we've looked at the invisible crisis of hunger in our cities—how it intersects with homelessness, health, access, and affordability. We've talked about people eating dollar meals because they have no kitchen, skipping food to pay for transit, and developing chronic illnesses from diets shaped by scarcity.

The Exponential Impact of Higher Food Costs
If you've walked through a grocery store or ordered takeout recently, you've felt it. Our fridge broke down a few weeks ago, and we had to order food for three days while waiting on a replacement part. Nearly $70 for some Chinese takeout for a family of four, and that was just dinner! Prices like that aren't just inconvenient. They’re unsustainable.

The High Cost of Cheap Food
A while back, I met a woman who had just moved into a shelter after months of living in her car. She told me she'd been eating fast food almost every day, not because she liked it, but because it was the only thing she could get. No kitchen. No fridge. No place to store leftovers. She was working odd jobs and surviving day-to-day, so anything that required prep or cleanup was off the table—literally. That left her with the dollar menu.

“You get what you get and you don’t get upset” … even if your health depends on it
I have a friend I met on the streets years ago who I'll call Sean. He's a short man in his fifties with dark hair and a joy that radiated love and warmth to everyone around him. Every time I saw him, Sean would call my name and insist on a hug (I'm not a hugger, but I made an exception for Sean). His smile could lift your whole day.

6 Cups of Soup and a Gut Punch I Won’t Forget
A few years ago, during an outreach in Manhattan, a young man approached me on the sidewalk. I'll call him Leon. He was soft-spoken and polite. A little worn out. He asked if we had anything to eat, so I helped him with a cup of our famous vegetable soup—made fresh that morning in our 80-gallon soup kettle.

Natural Disasters Don’t Discriminate, But the Recovery Does
I met him a few months ago in Harlem. He was in his fifties — well dressed, articulate, and looking for work. A proud Howard University graduate, he once worked in their IT department. After getting married, he moved to New York City and built a life. But then came a divorce, and not long after, a fire in his apartment building that started when a neighbor left the stove on overnight.

If It Happened to Them, It Could Happen to Us
We don't like to think about it, but we should. Natural disaster-driven homelessness doesn't just happen to "other people." It can happen to any of us, no matter how stable life feels right now.

Week 7: We Heal in Community
Let's talk about the kind of healing that can't be prescribed.
When we think about recovery, we tend to focus on professional care—therapy, medication, treatment plans. And yes, those things matter. A lot. But for many people experiencing homelessness and mental illness, recovery doesn't begin in a clinic. It begins with connection. It begins when someone looks you in the eye and says, "I see you. You matter."

Week 2: A System Designed to Fail — How Deinstitutionalization Fueled Homelessness
When we look at the intersection of mental health and homelessness, we have to start with a critical turning point in U.S. history: the deinstitutionalization of psychiatric hospitals. Beginning in the 1960s and accelerating through the 1980s, states across the country closed large-scale mental health institutions with the promise of replacing them with community-based care.

Autism, Homelessness, and the Safety Net We Still Don’t Have
When I first started working on the streets of New York City and New Jersey, I was 24. I didn't have kids. I knew almost nothing about autism—especially how overwhelming noise, bright lights, and chaos could be for someone with sensory sensitivities.

The Overlooked Crisis of Period Poverty
At outreach in New York City, it is not uncommon for women who are experiencing homelessness to approach me and ask if I can help them access menstrual products. These requests are often whispered, almost as if they're ashamed to ask. But there's nothing shameful about needing basic hygiene—it’s a human necessity.

Megan’s Resilience—and Why It Shouldn’t Be This Hard
This week, I want to continue our conversation about the realities of homelessness for women by highlighting the immense challenges single moms face as they try to juggle work, school, and childcare—all without the stability of a home.

From Survival to Stability: The Fight for Safe Housing After Abuse
Women escaping domestic violence often face an impossible choice: stay in a dangerous situation or risk homelessness. With shelters full, affordable housing out of reach, and support systems often broken by abuse, many women are left with nowhere to go.

Women & Homelessness: Breaking the Cycle of “Stuckness”
One of the first women I met doing outreach in New York City was Tricia (not her real name). She was in her mid-forties, trying to escape a cycle of trauma, addiction, and violence. Taking methadone for opioid recovery, she also needed anxiety medication for PTSD, but the combination left her drowsy and vulnerable on the streets. Shelter rules forced her outside during the day, leaving her exposed to dangers she couldn't fend off. She couldn't work, couldn't stop treatment without unbearable withdrawal, and most of all—she couldn't find a way out. She was stuck.
The Power and Impact of Our Words
Words matter. I have seen firsthand how our guests at City Relief can often be described with language that would dehumanize and demoralize any of us. Let’s face it, the words we use to talk about people inevitably end up impacting the way we engage with people.
Lifelines Beyond Shelters - Access to Basic Necessities
As we wrap up our focus this month on Access to Food & Basic Necessities, I'd like to delve deeper into the role of shelters in addressing homelessness and where they sometimes fall short.
Climate Change and Homelessness: A Crucial Connection
We often hear about climate change and its devastating impact on our planet—melting ice caps, endangered polar bears, and extreme weather events. But have you ever considered how it affects the people who are the most vulnerable?
Waking Up Hungry: Help Us Battle Food Insecurity
Imagine waking up hungry and uncertain where your first and perhaps only meal of the day will come from. This is the harsh reality for many homeless individuals every single day.
The Impossible Equation: Housing Access for Hardworking Individuals
As we continue our series on shelter and housing access throughout July, I want to discuss the impossible equation that many hardworking individuals face: the soaring cost of housing versus stagnant wages. It feels like this is one of the major issues in America these days. I personally want to invite you to you to join us in challenging the stereotypes and advocating for affordable housing solutions that align with people's incomes.